Comment from Heinz Müller: It is so easy to see what others are doing wrong and what they should change. But most of the time, we forget that we actually could start with ourselves.
The following words were written on the tomb of an Anglican Bishop in the Crypts of Westminister Abbey*:
When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits, I dreamed of changing the world. As I grew older and wiser, I discovered the world would not change, so I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country.
But it, too, seemed immovable.
As I grew into my twilight years, in one last desperate attempt, I settled for changing only my family, those closest to me, but alas, they would have none of it.
And now as I lie on my deathbed, I suddenly realize: If I had only changed my self first, then by example I would have changed my family.
From their inspiration and encouragement, I would then have been able to better my country and, who knows, I may have even changed the world.
* Quoted in the book, Chicken Soup for the Soul by Jack Canfield
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